Stokesay was never actually a castle as such, even though it was built in the 12th century when proper castle building was de rigueur. It’s actually a fortified manor house, but I suppose Stokesay Fortified Manor House would cost more in ink when it was included in books and tourist publications. Here’s a better one I picked up from Wiki, taken from the other side and showing the graveyard, just in case any odd PhD archaeology student from America should happen to pass this way.
So should I say who the Chinese lady is? I don't think I should without her express permission, and we're not really in contact at the moment. I'll give you a clue, though: it isn't Tiger Lily.