I certainly hope no one would get married just to feel what getting divorced was like. And I doubt it would be trivial. This post is making me pessimistic.
Don't be, Maria. The real reason I got married was nothing of the sort. That was just my version of dark humour. Jokes come in many forms, and 'cynical' is one of them. My tentative assessment is that you won't have a problem when the time comes. Not that I can know, of course, but you certainly shouldn't be pessimistic on my account.
Zhen: In retrospect, yes, but I could go into a very lengthy exposition on that one which you wouldn't be interested in. Let's just say that by the time the divorce happened, I was a different person with a different life, and so it meant nothing to me except having another bit of paper to file away. I'm just not the marrying kind. I find the whole concept claustrophobic and restrictive. Marriage isn't conducive to the way in which I want to grow, and the speed at which I want to do it.
I've never had money because I've never been driven by money. I received little formal education beyond the age of sixteen, which isn't such a bad thing since you get a different angle on life that way. Learning what you want and need to learn often reveals things that the system's road keeps hidden.
Anyone interested in viewing the availablity of my novel Odyssey or novella The Gift Horse can do so here.
To Be Retained...
...until death do re-unite or the Priestess return to Avalon.
Khalil Gibran on Children.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
OMAR KAYYAM ON REGRET.
The moving finger writes and, having writ, moves on. Nor all your piety nor wit shall lure it back to cancel half a line, nor all your tears wash out a word of it.
Herman Hess on Nobility
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self .
Free Fiction
I have another blog called A Handful of Stories on which I've posted some of my short fiction. Most of it has been published by a variety of independent small press publishers, so somebody other than me must have thought it worth reading.
All the permanent pictures and some of the posted ones on this blog are my copyright. Most of them, however, are placed with a picture library which holds the licensing rights. I don't, therefore, have the legal right to grant permission to use them.
An Inhabitant of the Hungry Ghost Realm
This character appears in one of my short stories, and also in the novel. He's sadder than he looks, poor thing.
5 comments:
I certainly hope no one would get married just to feel what getting divorced was like.
And I doubt it would be trivial.
This post is making me pessimistic.
was the marriage trivial?
I offer my own one word descriptor for divorce "traumatic"
Don't be, Maria. The real reason I got married was nothing of the sort. That was just my version of dark humour. Jokes come in many forms, and 'cynical' is one of them. My tentative assessment is that you won't have a problem when the time comes. Not that I can know, of course, but you certainly shouldn't be pessimistic on my account.
Zhen: In retrospect, yes, but I could go into a very lengthy exposition on that one which you wouldn't be interested in. Let's just say that by the time the divorce happened, I was a different person with a different life, and so it meant nothing to me except having another bit of paper to file away. I'm just not the marrying kind. I find the whole concept claustrophobic and restrictive. Marriage isn't conducive to the way in which I want to grow, and the speed at which I want to do it.
I'm finding myself giggling,what a suspect sense of humour I have!
You know I like you best when you giggle, Mel. You know next year's a leap year, don't you? Now there's an excuse for a giggle.
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