We judge ‘normality’ by the faces that society conditions people to present, not by the truth of what’s going on beneath the surface. This is but one of the many lies the culture would have us believe.
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Chantelle
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Withholding private thoughts and emotions isn't lying, you big silly man!
This was an off-the-cuff remark late at night, Chantelle. I was thinking more of the feelings, attitudes, opinions and predilections that people feel forced to hide for fear of judgement and alienation. I once heard a research psychologist explain how certain ‘minority interests’ that are frowned upon by society are actually very common. This is where the deceit comes in, and deceit is a primary mover of prejudice.
I’d be curious to know more about you so that I have some idea who I’m talking to. Your visit is appreciated.
Jeanne: I'm sure this is true of most of us, and why the search for who we really are requires honesty and a little courage. And accepting who we really are makes us less inclined to judge others.
and there you have it TA DA! and that is why i always draw saggitarians...with me the truth is what you get...ALWAYS...dig deeper and it's still the same as what you got on the surface, lol!
yeah i wish i could find more people like me too, lol ;)
I don't know, but I suspect it has to with the Establishment's exercise of control through conditioned notions of acceptability. One of the commonest tools it uses is the concept of morality, which is why I so dislike that concept. I'm an ethics man.
Well, as I understand the terms, morality is an unwritten code imposed by the cultural and religious establishment. It's both arbitrary and variable, changing from culture to culture and time to time.
Ethics, on the other hand, are more stable and universal. They derive from the inner sense of what is acceptable and unacceptable, good and bad.
Unfortunately, ethical senses come from within and are more difficult to pin down. Morals, being essentially didactic in nature, are much more easily stated and imposed. They often have a tendency to circumvent ethics, therefore, and at that point the water gets a bit muddy.
I've never had money because I've never been driven by money. I received little formal education beyond the age of sixteen, which isn't such a bad thing since you get a different angle on life that way. Learning what you want and need to learn often reveals things that the system's road keeps hidden.
Anyone interested in viewing the availablity of my novel Odyssey or novella The Gift Horse can do so here.
To Be Retained...
...until death do re-unite or the Priestess return to Avalon.
Khalil Gibran on Children.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
OMAR KAYYAM ON REGRET.
The moving finger writes and, having writ, moves on. Nor all your piety nor wit shall lure it back to cancel half a line, nor all your tears wash out a word of it.
Herman Hess on Nobility
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self .
Free Fiction
I have another blog called A Handful of Stories on which I've posted some of my short fiction. Most of it has been published by a variety of independent small press publishers, so somebody other than me must have thought it worth reading.
All the permanent pictures and some of the posted ones on this blog are my copyright. Most of them, however, are placed with a picture library which holds the licensing rights. I don't, therefore, have the legal right to grant permission to use them.
An Inhabitant of the Hungry Ghost Realm
This character appears in one of my short stories, and also in the novel. He's sadder than he looks, poor thing.
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Withholding private thoughts and emotions isn't lying, you big silly man!
We all have a multitude of masks that we wear. Some people have worn a mask for so long that they have forgotten what their own true face looks like.
This was an off-the-cuff remark late at night, Chantelle. I was thinking more of the feelings, attitudes, opinions and predilections that people feel forced to hide for fear of judgement and alienation. I once heard a research psychologist explain how certain ‘minority interests’ that are frowned upon by society are actually very common. This is where the deceit comes in, and deceit is a primary mover of prejudice.
I’d be curious to know more about you so that I have some idea who I’m talking to. Your visit is appreciated.
Jeanne: I'm sure this is true of most of us, and why the search for who we really are requires honesty and a little courage. And accepting who we really are makes us less inclined to judge others.
and there you have it TA DA! and that is why i always draw saggitarians...with me the truth is what you get...ALWAYS...dig deeper and it's still the same as what you got on the surface, lol!
yeah i wish i could find more people like me too, lol ;)
oops spelling mistake... sagittarians lol my latin teacher would be appalled...
One dimension, eh? A thick one. Might have known. And where've you been again? I missed you.
You have a Latni teacher?! (Just to make you feel at home.)
True enough. Is there a reason society presents them that way?
I don't know, but I suspect it has to with the Establishment's exercise of control through conditioned notions of acceptability. One of the commonest tools it uses is the concept of morality, which is why I so dislike that concept. I'm an ethics man.
How is ethics different from morality?
Well, as I understand the terms, morality is an unwritten code imposed by the cultural and religious establishment. It's both arbitrary and variable, changing from culture to culture and time to time.
Ethics, on the other hand, are more stable and universal. They derive from the inner sense of what is acceptable and unacceptable, good and bad.
Unfortunately, ethical senses come from within and are more difficult to pin down. Morals, being essentially didactic in nature, are much more easily stated and imposed. They often have a tendency to circumvent ethics, therefore, and at that point the water gets a bit muddy.
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